“A vacation is what you take when you can no longer take what you have been taking.” – Earl Wilson
What’s your last resort when you are in need of a break? How about a little vacation–preferably somewhere sunny and warm after over 100 inches of snow in the last month
The miracle of this mini 5-day family-filled vacation for this workaholic is the fact that at this very moment, all real connections to work are approximately 2,000 miles north in my home office. Goodbye laptop, goodbye daily status meetings, goodbye babysitting and hello freedom.
Sometimes no matter how you try and put a bandaid on the stresses of work, the only way to really hit the reset button–or sometimes feels like the panic button–is to pack your bags and get the heck out of dodge. Out of sight, out of mind–out of luck unless you can truly unplug from the constant borage of emails, phone calls, meetings and multitasking.
Setting boundaries with bosses, coworkers and even loved ones may feel a little awkward for some workaholics and control freaks–like yours truly–but something as small as an out of office reply for your work email can help those needy worker bees self soothe in your absence but can also put your mind at rest. I liken my out of office reply to a formal disclaimer—“expect delays” or even “I will return all emails upon my return” are glorious phrases that can send a clear signal to most professionals and while they may be envious, ultimately we all recognize the importance of a vacation.
The other key to cutting the cord with work–back up plans–while we all know we are entitled to utilize our allotted vacation time, sometimes it can be hard to imagine our team members providing guidance in our absence. The truth- with so much red tape at work, the obvious fact you must realize: nothing will burn to the ground and people will survive.
My challenge over the last few months at a new company has been consistency and structure and somehow I felt this pit feeling in my stomach at the very thought of asking for time off, but the company survived pre-April and can certainly survive sans April for 3 working days. Luckily, I have a very supportive boss who recognizes that burn out is a real possibility without ample breaks from the organized chaos–and after working 80 hour weeks for several months while trying to balance a personal life, my burn out point was becoming visible on the near horizon.
If you are also a workaholic, do you have enough self awareness to identify the factors that contribute to or can see your burn out point? A serious question you have to ask yourself before you come home one night from work and binge on ice cream, wine or chocolate and wake up feeling completely unrested and restless.
So you’re at the same juncture of being burnt out–now what?
Well luckily the Internet is full of wonderful outlets for vacation planning and deals, in addition to stay-cation ideas:
1. Cheap Carribean — yes I realize this sounds like an Internet scam, but after hearing stories from close friends who have taken the leap, I’m a believer (Website)
2. Trip Advisor– my vacation website staple for things from restaurants to the real scoop on hotels in every locale under the sun. It may even be a great resource for stay-cation ideas in and around your area–new neighborhood gems pop up everyday
3. Why not try a blog for additional ideas? Beats the office on WordPress is one of my favorites and why notj just take a look right? (Beats the Office website)
So let’s do this–I’m off to Florida for some family time and rest from my professional life–what are you waiting for?
In the words of Winnie the Pooh– TTFN